Sunday, July 27, 2008

Missed Call

What's up with a Missed Call? I don't call people back that don't leave a message (with one exception: my sister). She's a notorious "missed caller," but I call her back because, well I guess it's a sister thing. Seriously though, are people so busy they can't even leave a message? The best is when a Missed Call is from an ex. I saw one on my phone Thursday night. What, did he change his mind, get interrupted or worse, mis-dial? Honestly, who cares. I didn't call him back. The way I see it, if someone wants to get in touch they will. Still, I know plenty of women who will call their ex back. It's another way of saying, "Hi, it's me. I saw that you called and even though we're broken up and you didn't leave a message I'm calling you back because I'm (secretly) interpreting your missed call as you must still care and well, I still care and if you want to call me back, I'm here ... call me!" Why do women use every little crumb as their excuse to get back in touch with someone who was probably difficult to get over? Of course I know WHY but it's like a crack addict looking for a fix. Once the temporary high comes down, all you're left with is depression. A missed call from an ex is a missed call from an ex. Nothing to read in to. If a man has something to say, he will.

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I dont mind a miss a call, I would rather people not leave a msg if its only going to be "hey call me"