Hope

I've been obsessed with the DNC all week, and tonight, with over 80,000 gathered to watch Obama's speech live, I am in awe . This historical moment not only marks the 45th anniversary of Dr. Martin Luther Kings "I have a Dream" speech, but it's also the first time this many people have come together for a US political rally, much less that of an African American delivering his presidential nomination acceptance speech. We've come a long way. You'd have to be sans American heart, not to feel the electrifying energy and hope Obama brings. Witnessing and contributing to his political campaign has truly lifted my spirit. I feel gratitude in my bones for how far we've come. And, for those who got us here. I know Obama will carry the torch for a change we can believe in. This is our time, and the time is now. Yes, we can.

Married post break up

Almost every “unavailable” boyfriend I've had marries the girl right after me. Today I learned that my ex boyfriend got engaged to a woman he's only been dating for four months. They're getting married in October. That will make him the sixth one of my ex’s to get married post our break up. I wouldn’t choose any of my ex's today, I wouldn’t. But, that doesn’t take away from what comes up for me upon hearing the news. I'm happy for them, and after all is said and done, I wouldn't change a thing. I believe the Universe is always sorting. This is another opportunity to get clear on what I want. I say I would love nothing more than to find a partner, get married and have an extraordinary relationship. Begs me to ask, am I available?

Garden of Friendship

"Every close friendship offers the same fundamental thrill; someone has singled you out and chosen you, someone who had no obligation to do so." - Jenny Offill and Elissa Schappell

I am seriously grateful for my friendships. They make life magical. Each one of my friends is so special in the beauty they bring to my life. They come in all shapes, styles and minds but share the same heart. From Barbara (a newly married and spunky 75 year old international spiritual teacher) to my Mama (a “female strength” tattoo toting, Half Dome climbing, raw foodist), to Mychelle (a Birkin sporting hippie and gorgeous psychotherapist), to Mary (an athletic and funny real estate mogul and TV star) to six year old Ava, (a happy and grateful sprite of sunshine) – they teach me how to love. Friendship has always inspired me. I wrote a book called, The Voice of Gratitude - celebrating the gift of friendship which was distributed exclusively at Hallmark. I still have some copies and if anyone wants one, I'll send it to you gratis. I'm so grateful my Garden of Friendship's in perennial bloom. Tell your friend what you're grateful today!

Nicks Memorial

Today was Nicks memorial service. A beautiful gathering on the beach in Santa Monica. The weather was gorgeous - 76 and clear. I could feel Nick smiling. I really didn't know anyone there but was invited by a friend of Nicks who read my blog. I was so honored. His loved ones spoke about his way of life. In Nicks own words, "all of life comes to me with ease, joy and glory." Nicks lovely girlfriend, Lisa Todd spoke about three principles Nick truly lived by: Presence, Truth and Compassion. That, combined with heartfelt words from his friend and sister, I came to know Nick as a man of honor and grace. More than once, I was inspired and moved to tears. Funny how small our world is. The minister, Reverend Coco Stewart, is a minister at my church Agape. I don't know if Nick ever attended a service there but it somehow made me feel closer to a man I barely knew. Her words were beautiful as she spoke about Nicks eternal purpose in the lives of everyone fortunate enough to have known him. Again, thank you Nicholas Adams Harrell for being a beautiful teacher in my life and for so many others. Your light lives on ...